Understanding the needs of empathy in children with autism

For parents who have kids with autism need to be patient and more caring. We must understand what children needs also trying to firm but not hard and everything can be carried out with empathy. Here five kinds of empathy for children with autisms which need more attention by the parents and family.

Communication
Usually, in parenting children with autism happens no best communication between autistic children and their parents. When communicating with an autistic kid, parents have to be patient and not pressing the child. Encourage children to speak slowly, tell your child what you mean. When communicating, it could be a child was imagining, so he/she does not catch your message at that time. So, be patient, and understand the conditions at that time, ask again to speak until your point delivered and well received by children.

Socialization
In a child with severe autism will tend to be alone, whereas children with mild autism tends to give the impression that he/she is picky about something. Try to recognize autism in children, and do not prohibit the child to do what they like or make it comfortable. Stay with the child in doing activities, try not to have a coercion. Do not give labeling in autistic children when he/she was doing something that most people look weird. Understand your child's condition and empathize on it

Emotion
Children with autism has an unstable emotion. The child will be irritable, irrational fear, laugh too much. Never assume that the behavior of autistic children as something strange. As a parent, you need to treat children with autism wisely. Understand the emotions. Somehow autistic children have sensitive sense. He can be extremely sensitive, but may also have no empathy at all. Wrong treatment from parents or family on his emotions, affects children with autism. Without understanding the emotions, not empathize with the emotions of children with autism, the child self-concept will fall. Same as normal children generally, when he was given label, then he would likely be the same as labeled. If you say a naughty boy, then he would really be naughty.

Repetitive
Children with autism tend to do something that he/she liked repeatedly. The song that he/she likes played repeatedly. Favorite foods are continuously consumed each time he was hungry. His/her will continue to pick a favorite clothing , wash wear has done repeatedly. These repetitive behaviors happen on several child with autism. To introduce a different thing to him/her is the important parent task. If children have not yet interested, its okay. Never push him/her, and do not ever give labeling to his/her repetitive behaviors.

Perception
Children with autism often not comfortable with his senses. Sometimes do not like a particular sound heard. His eyes were not comfortable when looking certain light. Parents need to empathize and understand this condition. Parents need to respond in an appropriate way. Patience, empathy, but not indulge. Attempting to firmly but not hard.